So we all know about making purple, the new cool way to talk about what happens when you put a bunch of guys and girls in a confined location with the lights turned down low. Right now I don’t really have this problem. In fact in my Youth group the girls outnumber the buys by at least 2 to 1. We also have this strange tradition where the girls think it is fun to hang all over each other and stuff.
They aren’t gay or bi or whatever they just do this because …? Yea I don’t get it. I’m a guy. There are a lot of things girls can do that guys can’t. If a guy is hanging all over another guy they aren’t straight.
Is this everywhere? I don’t remember this being so prevalent when I was in HS. Sure girls would hold hands and hug and all those other things that guys don’t really do, but I’m talking about really pushing the boundaries.
I’m not sure exactly how to address this. Is it really something I should address?
–Confused in Seattle.