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		By: Nick the Geek		</title>
		<link>https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1023</link>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 23:24:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1014&quot;&gt;katdish&lt;/a&gt;.

Yeah it is a lesson I constantly forget and then get angry about because my efforts seem to fall flat. God is good enough to keep giving me mercy though.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1014">katdish</a>.</p>
<p>Yeah it is a lesson I constantly forget and then get angry about because my efforts seem to fall flat. God is good enough to keep giving me mercy though.</p>
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		By: Nick the Geek		</title>
		<link>https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1022</link>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 23:23:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1015&quot;&gt;Ryan Tate&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks, yeah it is a real struggle for me. I keep trying to be God to people, well I keep trying to do the things God is supposed to do which is that same thing and pretty prideful.  Oops.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1015">Ryan Tate</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks, yeah it is a real struggle for me. I keep trying to be God to people, well I keep trying to do the things God is supposed to do which is that same thing and pretty prideful.  Oops.</p>
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		By: Nick the Geek		</title>
		<link>https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1021</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nick the Geek]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 23:22:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1016&quot;&gt;Candy&lt;/a&gt;.

yeah and I still don&#039;t like the idea of a neti pot, but I did see the dentist and get the actual problem resolved so far as I can tell. This year hasn&#039;t been one long sinus infection at least.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1016">Candy</a>.</p>
<p>yeah and I still don&#8217;t like the idea of a neti pot, but I did see the dentist and get the actual problem resolved so far as I can tell. This year hasn&#8217;t been one long sinus infection at least.</p>
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		By: Nick the Geek		</title>
		<link>https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1020</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nick the Geek]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 23:20:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1017&quot;&gt;Helen&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks, I share your frustration and I pay for most of my kids every day. I even pray for a lot of the ones I&#039;ve only met once or twice and don&#039;t know their names. I&#039;m very visual so I remember their faces and stuff. Kinda weird I guess praying to God for that boy that came that was wearing that jacket with the frayed tassels (btw this is not an actual description) but I figure He knows who I&#039;m talking about.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1017">Helen</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks, I share your frustration and I pay for most of my kids every day. I even pray for a lot of the ones I&#8217;ve only met once or twice and don&#8217;t know their names. I&#8217;m very visual so I remember their faces and stuff. Kinda weird I guess praying to God for that boy that came that was wearing that jacket with the frayed tassels (btw this is not an actual description) but I figure He knows who I&#8217;m talking about.</p>
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		By: Nick the Geek		</title>
		<link>https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1019</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nick the Geek]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 23:13:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1018&quot;&gt;Sherry Meneley&lt;/a&gt;.

I tend to be the person that starts working on things before consulting God. I felt convicted about it to the point that I try to pray about everything I do even if it seems like a small thing. I am working against a lifetime of habit so I&#039;m not always successful, but I read about Israel going to battle without consulting God first and things going really bad even if it looks good for them before the battle on paper.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1018">Sherry Meneley</a>.</p>
<p>I tend to be the person that starts working on things before consulting God. I felt convicted about it to the point that I try to pray about everything I do even if it seems like a small thing. I am working against a lifetime of habit so I&#8217;m not always successful, but I read about Israel going to battle without consulting God first and things going really bad even if it looks good for them before the battle on paper.</p>
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		By: Sherry Meneley		</title>
		<link>https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1018</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sherry Meneley]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 21:54:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Great story and segue into such an obvious comparison.
Sometimes during our Small Group prayer time, I have to stop others from trying to resolve the prayer requesters issue/problem.  I&#039;ve tried to point out that in our talking about the problem and coming up with a plethora of solutions prior to prayer that we are demonstrating to God that we are going to try and solve this on our own: AKA: we don’t give God the first right to fix this issue in His way.
I&#039;ve even been so bold as to say, &quot;why do we even need to pray if we are going to fix this ourselves?&quot;  (clearly those are the nights I get a little frustrated and over vocal, not my finer moments)
Personally - I think God is asking me to focus on prayer, faith, and trust.  Seems simple, but has felt overwhelming.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great story and segue into such an obvious comparison.<br />
Sometimes during our Small Group prayer time, I have to stop others from trying to resolve the prayer requesters issue/problem.  I&#8217;ve tried to point out that in our talking about the problem and coming up with a plethora of solutions prior to prayer that we are demonstrating to God that we are going to try and solve this on our own: AKA: we don’t give God the first right to fix this issue in His way.<br />
I&#8217;ve even been so bold as to say, &#8220;why do we even need to pray if we are going to fix this ourselves?&#8221;  (clearly those are the nights I get a little frustrated and over vocal, not my finer moments)<br />
Personally &#8211; I think God is asking me to focus on prayer, faith, and trust.  Seems simple, but has felt overwhelming.</p>
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		By: Helen		</title>
		<link>https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1017</link>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 14:46:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Great post, Nick.
I had the same need to make things all better when I was teaching.  There are lots of angry children out there, who have reason to be angry.  I had to constantly put their situation before God.  Sometimes I saw the result of my prayers.  Sometimes I didn&#039;t.
But I never stopped getting frustrated at seeing them hurt.  That doesn&#039;t go away.  Sorry.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post, Nick.<br />
I had the same need to make things all better when I was teaching.  There are lots of angry children out there, who have reason to be angry.  I had to constantly put their situation before God.  Sometimes I saw the result of my prayers.  Sometimes I didn&#8217;t.<br />
But I never stopped getting frustrated at seeing them hurt.  That doesn&#8217;t go away.  Sorry.</p>
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		By: Candy		</title>
		<link>https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1016</link>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 14:23:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Most nurses feel the same way - they want to fix people, but in a different way that you do (sorta). I get so frustrated when people take poor care of themselves and end up in my care, only to return again in a year or two for the exact same reason. I&#039;m gradually learning I just can&#039;t make choices for them, but it&#039;s taken me a very long time. I can&#039;t make them eat right, I can&#039;t make them stop smoking any more than I can get you to use a NetiPot. The only thing I can do is pray for them. Pray that something that I say &quot;sticks&quot; (and often it does, praise God). That&#039;s how God has &quot;fixed&quot; me in a small part of my life - by being more accepting, making me a little wiser, and giving me an awareness that I must practice what I preach and wield a gentle hand in my attempted &quot;fixes.&quot; After all, I&#039;m not the boss of them, but I can certainly pray to the One who is.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most nurses feel the same way &#8211; they want to fix people, but in a different way that you do (sorta). I get so frustrated when people take poor care of themselves and end up in my care, only to return again in a year or two for the exact same reason. I&#8217;m gradually learning I just can&#8217;t make choices for them, but it&#8217;s taken me a very long time. I can&#8217;t make them eat right, I can&#8217;t make them stop smoking any more than I can get you to use a NetiPot. The only thing I can do is pray for them. Pray that something that I say &#8220;sticks&#8221; (and often it does, praise God). That&#8217;s how God has &#8220;fixed&#8221; me in a small part of my life &#8211; by being more accepting, making me a little wiser, and giving me an awareness that I must practice what I preach and wield a gentle hand in my attempted &#8220;fixes.&#8221; After all, I&#8217;m not the boss of them, but I can certainly pray to the One who is.</p>
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		By: Ryan Tate		</title>
		<link>https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1015</link>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 13:43:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Great honesty here. Thank you. A constant reminder that I need is that I don&#039;t have to be capable of everything.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great honesty here. Thank you. A constant reminder that I need is that I don&#8217;t have to be capable of everything.</p>
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		By: katdish		</title>
		<link>https://nickgeek.com/mr-fix-it/#comment-1014</link>

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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 13:41:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[It is a hard lesson to learn. Not just in these situations but in everything. It&#039;s about surrendering control and admitting that we can&#039;t fix people. We can&#039;t even fix ourselves. We just have to do what we can to allow God to be the fixer. Still frustrating, though.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is a hard lesson to learn. Not just in these situations but in everything. It&#8217;s about surrendering control and admitting that we can&#8217;t fix people. We can&#8217;t even fix ourselves. We just have to do what we can to allow God to be the fixer. Still frustrating, though.</p>
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