20 Comments to “No wonder people don't trust Christians”

  1. Danny Bixby

    Dec 28th, 2009

    It’s easy to believe a lie.

    We want stories that are extraordinary and validate our beliefs to be true. We want that so much that we’ll ignore reasonable objections or logic in order to keep propagating the lie.

    We want real life examples that validate scriptures. Sometimes it’s more than just desire. Sometimes we actually need it because our faith is so weak that if we didn’t have these extraordinary and validating anecdotes, we’d have no faith at all.

    Sometimes we just want to be able to throw an anecdote in someone’s face who counters our beliefs.

    Or we just get told something is true, we’re inherently trusting, and we don’t bother to question it. Thereby putting as much faith (or more) into some chain letter anecdote as we do into Jesus himself.

  2. Marni

    Dec 28th, 2009

    What Danny said. I started typing almost exactly what he did and then realized I was being redundant…maybe even plagerizing ;-) So yeah, what he said.

    • Nick the Geek

      Dec 28th, 2009

      Slacker, can’t come up with something so you just claim that you were unintentionally copying someone else … On the other hand Danny had some great thoughts so they might be worth restating …

    • Danny Bixby

      Dec 28th, 2009

      Plagiarism is fine, you’re on the internet ;)

  3. Marni

    Dec 28th, 2009

    And WHY do I get a goofy little avatar each time I comment. How do I get a real one?

    • Nick the Geek

      Dec 28th, 2009

      Already mentioned it on twitter for you but if you get a Gravatar your avatar will be the same on all blogs that are gravatar enabled (including most Word Press blogs) Gravatar.com

  4. Adrienne

    Dec 28th, 2009

    I’ve just read a short, thoughtful book on recognizing how culture affects our theology. In it, it talked about modernism, and how this cultural change towards “reason” has lead to a strongly literal interpretation of Scripture. And to increased use of “science” to prove the existence of God, and an increased need for evidence as the basis of faith.

    So, in answer to your question, even though the rest of the world has transitioned to post-modernism, I think “proofs” still hold a comforting spot in some people’s hearts — especially people who were trained in theology before the 1970′s. I’ve got a friend in her mid-50′s who loves a DVD that gives all kinds of astronomy evidence for the “Christmas Star…”

    • Nick the Geek

      Dec 28th, 2009

      That’s a really interesting idea that I hadn’t thought of. I am torn in many ways between the modern thought process and post modern. I can see valid truth on both sides but ultimately I find that Truth tends to be obscured by worldviews. I am generally pretty literal in my interpretation of the Bible, but I feel it doesn’t need made up proof.

      • Danny Bixby

        Dec 28th, 2009

        There are lots of authors who deal with faith from a post-modern perspective, most popularly (or controversially, depending how you look at it) Brian McLaren obviously.

        Even if you have problems with some of his theological conclusions or questions, the background information on modernism & post-modernism is (in my opinion) incredibly sound. “New Kind of Christian,” though done as fiction, is a very good place to start for that topic.

  5. Valerie

    Dec 28th, 2009

    Hi Nick,

    I think first we would need to decide if it’s deliberately a lie being told over and over or just ignorance being passed down to the kids. Kind of like.. “If you keep making that expression, your face will stick that way.” My face never stuck that way….really!!

    Secondly, I think there are people out there who want so much to “prove” the existence of God, that they will warp truths to try and substantiate what they deem as fact. The truth is simply this, God exists… He is… it will be up to Him when and if He decides to prove it. I’ll choose to stick with believing, NASA satellites or not.

    • Danny Bixby

      Dec 28th, 2009

      I’m too quick to label something as a lie.

      Really, lying would only be saying/teaching something that you knew wasn’t true. As opposed to merely propagating an idea that you assume (for whatever reason) really is true.

      You can be perfectly authentic and truthful, and still be dead wrong.

      BUT, I don’t think it’s important to distinguish which place a person is coming from. Unless I want to try to judge them as being a liar or not.

      I feel much safer in saying that it’s our business in correcting the information and the person as opposed to trying to ascertain their motives.

    • Nick the Geek

      Dec 28th, 2009

      I agree that we do need to be aware of what constitutes a lie. Someone must have lied intentionally at some point in this, and in ignorance we propagate the lie. The problem I have is that finding the truth is very easy, but we add laziness to ignorance and so teach something that is untrue and bring shame to Christ. That bothers me. What’s worse is that this lie is in print in Christian educational material for a Bible class. This is doubly wrong and is the modern day equivalent to shouting down Galileo because you think the Bible teaches the Earth is flat and the Universe revolves around us.

      • Danny

        Dec 29th, 2009

        Funny you use the Galileo example. I’ve actually known people who really do insist that the Bible teaches that the Earth is flat and the Universe revolves around us. In this day and age.

        For reals.

        The laundry list of things that we propagate in ignorance and shame Christ with is probably immeasurable.

        Good thing he’s pretty big into forgiveness. ;)

      • Danny

        Dec 29th, 2009

        Funny you use the Galileo example. I’ve actually known people who really do insist that the Bible teaches that the Earth is flat and the Universe revolves around us. In this day and age.

        For reals.

        The laundry list of things that we propagate in ignorance and shame Christ with is probably immeasurable.

        Good thing he’s pretty big into forgiveness. ;)

  6. Ron

    Jan 6th, 2010

    Can I submit a rather late addition to this thread?
    The Wizards first rule states “People are stupid; given proper motivation, almost anyone will believe almost anything. Because people are stupid, they will believe a lie because they want to believe it’s true, or because they are afraid it might be true. People’s heads are full of knowledge, facts, and beliefs, and most of it is false, yet they think it all true. People are stupid; they can only rarely tell the difference between a lie and the truth, and yet they are confident they can, and so are all the easier to fool.”
    ‘Stupid’ might be a bit harsh a term, ‘Lazy’ might be a better fit.

    • Nick the Geek

      Jan 9th, 2010

      Lazy is very important to why people accept and spread lies like this. Great addition.

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